Mastering public speaking is a fear that every individual has to overcome.
When I first started out on the speaking circuit, the public speaking fear was a constant companion of mine.
The
very thought of speaking in front a large audience that are waiting in
anticipation for what you're about to say can often be a terrifying
experience.
The sweaty palms, the dry throat, shortness of breath and the shaking hands are all tell-tale signs of public speaking anxiety.
The
thing to remember is however that this is perfectly normal. In fact,
even seasoned speakers often experience nerves and those uncomfortable
butterflies in their stomach prior to giving their speech.
Mastering public speaking is determined by a number of critical factors.
Below are 12 important steps you should follow to overcome your fears and deliver a successful speech:
1. Know Your Subject
Do
your research beforehand. Make sure you have a good understanding of
the subject you are talking about. This will help ensure you deliver a
fluent and confident presentation and keep the attention of your
audience.
2. Take Notes
Reading out your
entire speech is definitely a no, no, but you should write down a brief
outline on some note cards to keep you focused and on track.
3. Rehearse Your Speech
Practicing
your delivery in private is one of the keys to mastering your delivery.
As the saying goes 'Repetition is mother of success' and mastering
public speaking is no exception. Repetitive practice is a sure-fire way
of developing your public speaking skills.
4. Know Your Audience
Your
material should be targeted to suit your audience. Using inappropriate
or irrelevant content could result in you speech offending or being
boring.
5. Learn to Relax
Nerves are
natural at the beginning of any speech. Control your nerves by taking
slow deep breaths and make sure you take a pause before you start.
6. Avoid Apologizing For Your Nerves or Inexperience
It's
a common occurrence for some speakers to apologize to their audience
for sounding nervous or for their inexperience in public speaking. Your
audience doesn't want to or need to hear this. They've come to listen to
information that's interesting and insightful. So don't do this.
7. Speak to your Audience-
This
may sound obvious, but when nervous it's often tempting to just talk to
your notes. Eye contact with your audience is important to build
rapport and also to judge their reactions to your tone, pace and content
of your speech.
8. Use Gestures
Gestures
are a great way to express yourself more clearly and enhance your
delivery. As long as they're natural and not overdone, they can add a
great deal to a speech and can also help keep you relaxed.
9. Add Humour.
Again avoid overdoing it, but the occasional amusing story or joke within your speech can engage and lift your audience.
10. Speak with Conviction
It's
so important to speak with passion and belief. If you're not passionate
and believable in what you're saying then your audience will pick up on
it very quickly. Once they do that, it's a sure bet you're very close
to losing them.
11. Take Your Time
Nerves
can often result in you rushing through your speech. Slowing down the
pace will allow the audience to keep tuned in to what you're saying. It
also gives the impression that you're confident and control of what
you're saying.
12. Just Do It.
The only way
to overcome your fears and develop as a confident speaker is to get
yourself out there and do it. Start off by volunteering to speak at
family gatherings and team meetings at work. This will slowly but surely
build your confidence to eventually speak in front of larger audiences
and at bigger venues.
Speaking to an audience large or small can
prove one of the most daunting experiences that anyone can face.
However, by implementing the above steps you will then dramatically
enhance your skills in mastering public speaking.
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